I did post a couple of weeks ago to a month I can't remember. For those who shared thier tips and stories about sharing I thank you so much as ill explain.

So last night I was with my girlfriend and just sat her down and told her straight up that im a part of abdl which is adult focused kink. I like to wear and sometimes go into little mode which is rare but I do wear onesies and have a pacifier. I offered if she ever wanted to try it I would always be there for her and guide her. I did say when we get more comfortable I would like to wear around her but one step at a time.

She took it very well! She had some questions about my little side and if wearing and using it affects adult me and going to the bathroom/holding my pee in.

I was super nervous but I'm glad she was so understanding and accepting of it. I thank those who did comment earlier if they do end up reading this!