Just wanted to put it out to the world, This happened last night. I met my BF through my fondness of diapers and last night I was being my weird self and he says "can't you just be an adult, you are just a child a big child aren't you?" then later that night I hear what sounds to be him eating some of the chicken we had last night so I ask him if he is munching on it and he says no later I hear it again and asked him if he had another piece and he says no again and adds "you're really starting to annoy me, no, you haven't just started you've been annoying me".

The next day I grabbed the few things I was keeping at his place. He asked me what's wrong and I told him. He said it was a joke and blamed it on the stress of his car problems and he said he was sorry. It just hurt so much when he said those things that I don't really care if he was overly stressed about his car engine blowing up or if it was a joke. He just kept apologizing and how much he liked me being wierd the entire way I took him to work (I agreed to help him out already and even though I felt like shit I wasn't going to leave him in a lurch).

I felt even pressure to end things then because it's my birthday next week and I really don't want him to get me a gift or take me out just to break up with him. I just feel like it's kind of obvious someone who pisses themselves for fun/stress relief might also have a few other quirks.

Am I the asshole who made to big of a deal about this or what? If you have any other questions about the situation I'll be happy to share I can't him not knowing it's me already if he reads this.