*Interesting real-world development

I have been contemplating and hesitating sharing this for a while with paranoia of possibly revealing myself to a friend of mine.

I have ultimately decided to share this as my friend would also have to follow r/ABDL, and therefore most likely be a member of the ABDL community to find out.

A little under I year ago I got a job in a call center and among the acquaintances and friends I made, one in particular I began having suspicions of -- suspicions that have been intensified recently.

So this friend would often video chat with his at the time girlfriend while on break, a girl he met online and lived in Europe.

I first became suspicious when I was overhearing then talk one night, usually on speaker phone, when I heard his girlfriend talking in a little-like way; it's hard to explain, but I'm sure all of us can recognize or image what I'm referring to.

Fast forward to recently. I was playing Xbox with this friend online, we were in a party together, and he was also talking to his current girlfriend over the phone again.

Out of the blue, he asks me if he ever told me about his last girlfriends DDLG relationship; I said no and I tried to say it in a way that I didn't really know what that was. His response was that he'd explain it to me later.

My first thought was that he read one of my posts on either r/DDLGpersonals, r/ABDLpersonals, etc. and read a profile that made him suspicious of me.

Needless to say, I've been avoiding posting and viewing some of those groups since out of paranoia.

A few days later he was having a few other conversations with his girlfriend, and another girl he identified as his little sister. At one point I overheard him saying, because he rarely mutes his mic, "I love it when you talk like a baby" to his girlfriend.

Since these last few exchanges I have been suspicious that he suspects a profile he has read was mine, and I have been more avoiding some of the Reddit groups besides r/ABDL and r/ABDLpersonals.

I'm probably going to wait it out and see to see if the conversation goes any further, because I don't really want to admit to anyone that I'm a DL if it turns out they were just a DDLG dom even though they are related, closely related.

I'll probably just play it by ear and maybe if the conversation escalates further maybe I'll throw out a subtle hint like "I've got to get a better job to get my little paws on more money so I can afford my own space" or something along the lines of that.