I’m very lucky to live in a big city with lots of ABDLs and as a bi guy it’s been quite easy to find other ABDL partners. However I realized that I know almost no female ABDLs. Im wondering if there’s just more men than women in this community isn’t it incredibly difficult to find a partner if you’re a straight man? I’ve had platonic diaper hangouts with straight ABDLs before but I can sense the difficulty in finding a long term partner as a straight man here.

I think maybe queer people are just generally more accepting of kinks? Or maybe there’s something unique about male experiences that makes them more likely to develop this fetish? What are your experiences?