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DAILY DISCUSSION). How do you feel about the idea of someone diapering/changing you? If you are a caregiver how do you feel about it?
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Little- How do you feel about someone putting a diaper on you , do you like it? Does it make you feel more ā€œbabyā€? Is it a bonding thing? If you donā€™t like it/ havenā€™t tried it why? Is it something that just doesnā€™t speak to you?

Me personally- I donā€™t know.. iā€™ve never done it but i really donā€™t think i would like it mainly based as an insecurity thing maybe. like a ā€œ i look stupidā€

Cargivers-Do you like doing it? do you not? As a caregiver is it a bonding thing? do you find it cute and vulnerable for your baby? what about it speaks to you? If you donā€™t do it is it because your little doesnā€™t like it or is nervous?

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i can see that

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i know please i donā€™t want to feel ungrateful, we have not talked about this specifically, and he hasnā€™t mentioned it, i was just curious about why people do it before i asked him if i wanted to try it

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he doesnā€™t think i look stupid but i have a lot of anxious inner brain language and itā€™ll take time for me for sure

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Iā€™m happy for you :). for me it makes me nervous i just donā€™t think it would be soemthing i like

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i can see that, i have a lot of anxiety around the need to feel pretty and itā€™s hard for me to break down walls

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iā€™m happy for that :)

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he isnā€™t pressuring me i donā€™t even know if he would want to, nowhere of us have talked about it, but i was curious how other people do it and felt about it

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For me, Itā€™s just that iā€™m new to this i know i post a lot but itā€™s out of curiosityā€¦ while we have engaged in ddlg for a long time diapers are new to both of us and im not there yet conformity wise for sure. šŸ˜…

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For me iā€™m still new to this and i have a lot of internal dialogue about feeling like i look dumb. even though im comfortable with my daddy thatā€™s a BIG step for me because we are both new to diapers specifically. we have engaged in ddlg for years but im just now comfortable even wearing them around him

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I think thatā€™s why i feel differently about it than most people on here, he wouldnā€™t bring it up to ask to do it nor is it something that he like craves or whatever, he would be doing it because he wants to me me happy and thatā€™s not the same

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no please i didnā€™t mean to be mean, im just curious about it but i wanted to see why people like it

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Oh he has! he is super caring anyway, even before all this he has showers me and bathed me before he told me he enjoys it

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thatā€™s very cute i love that :)

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you will find love iā€™m sorry you are distressed right now. :( šŸ–¤ i have BPD and feel unlovable and crazy at times

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thankyou :)

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Iā€™m sorta in the same boat? My daddy is very new to this but already has a goofy and caregiving personality, so we are in the akward learning phase

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i can understand that, for me i can say i want things but i get nervous when im actually presented with ti

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that sound so cool though

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I love how you guys are wording it :) it makes me nervous

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me too! i donā€™t know why itā€™s like i donā€™t think about anxiety until it just happens

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I can understand tnat

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itā€™s so frustrating because i imagine a situation in my head but when it doesnā€™t go exactly the way i want it somethign messes up i get really emotional and it ruins it for me, and once i start overthinking it, itā€™s over

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i can say iā€™ll like and do things but when confronted i get shy and anxious

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itā€™s so hard for me to open up like that

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thatā€™s good :) it just isnā€™t a step iā€™m ready for

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I can see that :)

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That makes me feel a little better, i think itā€™ll take more time for me

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i can understand that, i think itā€™s a me thing

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oh my thatā€™s very cute!

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I can see that :)

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thankyou :)

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i understand, i have a deep rooted anxiety of feeling like i look stupid and itā€™s hard to be open or in a vulnerable place willingly and it makes me really emotionally distraught if something doesnā€™t go my way or i embarrass myself

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Iā€™m glad :) it makes me nervous like i get overstimulated if something isnā€™t exactly how i plan it in my head ( i have BPD)

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me too omg

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oh šŸ˜… o////o. see like i like diapers in so many ways that overlap. I like it as a comfort, degrading, sexually, not sexually and sometimes itā€™s hard when iā€™m feeling multiples at once. i donā€™t mind the idea of being shamed or changed because i like being degraded. BUT iā€™m also really shy and clingy and iā€™m afraid iā€™ll get over stimulated and just have a mental breakdown, while iā€™m diapered he tells me ( not an insult) i get more clingy and nervous

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i understand that for sure, i get bervous

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Itā€™s very cute :) i love reading through these

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I know iā€™m scared

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thatā€™s good :). iā€™m just neevous

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thatā€™s very cute :)

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thatā€™s very cute :)

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i can understand that

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i understand that, he knows and accepts everything, he likes it, being changed is a me thing, i donā€™t know if i will like it

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that makes sense

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i can understand that :)

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i know i just donā€™t think im ready šŸ˜…

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they are,in my ā€œbig girlā€ time i train dogs. I have a fully trained service dog

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I know :( it just like iā€™m not ready for that yet

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it makes me neevous

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Thankyou!! I will we are taking our dogs to a halloween event! My black lab is going to be a beee and i have little cargo shorts with bees on them and im the ā€œbeekeeperā€

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thankyou :)

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thatā€™s what iā€™m scared of

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it makes me feel better to hear that. i donā€™t want to make him anxious or push him too far, he is naturally caregiving but didnā€™t really know what abdl was, so he is learning and i donā€™t want to push him too far

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I can understand that, i feel bad for reading the comm ets saying how much they would love this and i am not trying to sound ungrateful, i like the post a discussion topic everyday and the mods said itā€™s fine and they encourage it , but sometimes itā€™s a discussion topic but also a me question

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Probably, i wouldnā€™t mind it but im like a ball of anoxert

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i can understand thta

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i love that ā¤ļø

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