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Little- How do you feel about someone putting a diaper on you , do you like it? Does it make you feel more ābabyā? Is it a bonding thing? If you donāt like it/ havenāt tried it why? Is it something that just doesnāt speak to you?
Me personally- I donāt know.. iāve never done it but i really donāt think i would like it mainly based as an insecurity thing maybe. like a ā i look stupidā
Cargivers-Do you like doing it? do you not? As a caregiver is it a bonding thing? do you find it cute and vulnerable for your baby? what about it speaks to you? If you donāt do it is it because your little doesnāt like it or is nervous?
i know please i donāt want to feel ungrateful, we have not talked about this specifically, and he hasnāt mentioned it, i was just curious about why people do it before i asked him if i wanted to try it
he doesnāt think i look stupid but i have a lot of anxious inner brain language and itāll take time for me for sure
Iām happy for you :). for me it makes me nervous i just donāt think it would be soemthing i like
i can see that, i have a lot of anxiety around the need to feel pretty and itās hard for me to break down walls
he isnāt pressuring me i donāt even know if he would want to, nowhere of us have talked about it, but i was curious how other people do it and felt about it
For me, Itās just that iām new to this i know i post a lot but itās out of curiosityā¦ while we have engaged in ddlg for a long time diapers are new to both of us and im not there yet conformity wise for sure. š
For me iām still new to this and i have a lot of internal dialogue about feeling like i look dumb. even though im comfortable with my daddy thatās a BIG step for me because we are both new to diapers specifically. we have engaged in ddlg for years but im just now comfortable even wearing them around him
I think thatās why i feel differently about it than most people on here, he wouldnāt bring it up to ask to do it nor is it something that he like craves or whatever, he would be doing it because he wants to me me happy and thatās not the same
no please i didnāt mean to be mean, im just curious about it but i wanted to see why people like it
Oh he has! he is super caring anyway, even before all this he has showers me and bathed me before he told me he enjoys it
you will find love iām sorry you are distressed right now. :( š¤ i have BPD and feel unlovable and crazy at times
Iām sorta in the same boat? My daddy is very new to this but already has a goofy and caregiving personality, so we are in the akward learning phase
i can understand that, for me i can say i want things but i get nervous when im actually presented with ti
I love how you guys are wording it :) it makes me nervous
me too! i donāt know why itās like i donāt think about anxiety until it just happens
itās so frustrating because i imagine a situation in my head but when it doesnāt go exactly the way i want it somethign messes up i get really emotional and it ruins it for me, and once i start overthinking it, itās over
i can say iāll like and do things but when confronted i get shy and anxious
itās so hard for me to open up like that
thatās good :) it just isnāt a step iām ready for
That makes me feel a little better, i think itāll take more time for me
i can understand that, i think itās a me thing
i understand, i have a deep rooted anxiety of feeling like i look stupid and itās hard to be open or in a vulnerable place willingly and it makes me really emotionally distraught if something doesnāt go my way or i embarrass myself
Iām glad :) it makes me nervous like i get overstimulated if something isnāt exactly how i plan it in my head ( i have BPD)
oh š o////o. see like i like diapers in so many ways that overlap. I like it as a comfort, degrading, sexually, not sexually and sometimes itās hard when iām feeling multiples at once. i donāt mind the idea of being shamed or changed because i like being degraded. BUT iām also really shy and clingy and iām afraid iāll get over stimulated and just have a mental breakdown, while iām diapered he tells me ( not an insult) i get more clingy and nervous
i understand that for sure, i get bervous
Itās very cute :) i love reading through these
i understand that, he knows and accepts everything, he likes it, being changed is a me thing, i donāt know if i will like it
i know i just donāt think im ready š
they are,in my ābig girlā time i train dogs. I have a fully trained service dog
I know :( it just like iām not ready for that yet
Thankyou!! I will we are taking our dogs to a halloween event! My black lab is going to be a beee and i have little cargo shorts with bees on them and im the ābeekeeperā
it makes me feel better to hear that. i donāt want to make him anxious or push him too far, he is naturally caregiving but didnāt really know what abdl was, so he is learning and i donāt want to push him too far
I can understand that, i feel bad for reading the comm ets saying how much they would love this and i am not trying to sound ungrateful, i like the post a discussion topic everyday and the mods said itās fine and they encourage it , but sometimes itās a discussion topic but also a me question
Probably, i wouldnāt mind it but im like a ball of anoxert
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i can see that