Yesterday I went to an Oktoberfest thingy at a local brewery. I went with two friends, but I knew, due to the nature of my small town, that I would run into other people I knew.

Sure enough, after an hour, I ran into my ex fiance, who threw my diapers and incontinence in my face on her way out the door almost two years ago. She saw me before I even knew she was there, and she decided to "surprise me."

Our relationship ended in the most sour way imaginable. We were engaged Christmas of 2022. In January of 23, she started to cheat. I went through a slow traumatic process of figuring out what was going on, while she slowly faded out of my life. Eventually she was just gone and I was broken. No closure. When I asked for answers, she called me insane.

Months later, her dad told me what she was up to, because her dad is a good dude. I called her up right after, and she showed no remorse. She told me that she couldn't marry a guy who has to wear diapers and berated me for all of my shortcomings.

These are all things I've worked on in therapy. Getting over that break up and the way she treated me, took a long time to heal from.

Yesterday, in front of god and country, she snuck up behind me, took a full wind up, and slapped my ass. I was wearing a diaper. I have to wear diapers. She knows this. Her slap made that obvious dull thud that anyone who's slapped a diaper would recognize. It made everyone turn their heads our way. I know that people don't know what that sounds like, but it was loud and attention grabbing.

She used to smack my butt like that while we dated in a flirty way, to purposely point out the fact that I was diapered. It was a thing. We never did it in public though, and there was no flirty tone yesterday.

She said, "thought so!" In a sing-song voice and walked away with a gross little smirk.

I laughed it off. I know that the people around us didn't know that I was wearing a diaper necessarily. She drew a ton of attention to my ass though, and violated my personal space. And she did it just to make a shitty little comment that only the two of us understand.

I think she left shortly after that. My evening went on. I couldn't forget about it. I ended up calling her to ask what the fuck her problem was. She told me that she just wanted to surprise me. And that she thought I would find it funny. I hung up on her and reblocked her.

She's a piece of shit.

Anyways.

Edit: thank you everyone for the support. This is indeed sexual assault. I need to think a little harder about how to handle this. This is a person I've known for 16 years, and honestly I'm fine. I don't personally have the energy to ruin her. But she could do it to someone else.

I'm also not entirely convinced the report will be taken seriously in my shitty KY town... But it's worth a shot I guess....