Long story short, I've been interesting in diapers and ABDL since before I understood it had a name. 9-10 years old. I played with diapers alone, life happens and I pushed this interest to the back of my mind and eventually was married at 25. The desire never went away but I didn't tell my spouse. Now at 40, we are splitting amicably and while sad, I now see my soon to be single life as an opportunity to meet other littles/caregivers IRL. However, I'm a bit overwhelmed with where to start. I have a Fetlife account and know I may be able to find munches locally. But will it be off-putting to anyone that I'm as old as I am and into this? I'm a switch and would enjoy meeting a woman who enjoys wearing/playing as ABDL and maybe switching to allow me to explore too. I'm just overwhelmed in general right now about life change and hoping that this will be an aspect of my life I can focus on more to learn about myself. I haven't been a single person since 20 years old. Thanks