I’ve grappled with being DL for a really long time. I’ve tried to make myself “not abdl” multiple times. I finally came to accept it’s a part of me, and to stop being such a mean person to myself/allow myself to be DL.

It’s like the only thing I could do about it, was accept it. Every time I reject it, and take the diaper off. I almost always put another one on a few minutes-a few hours later. Even having some minor bladder issues, and I’d still be all judgmental of myself.

It certainly is better feeling to just accept it, which to be fair was not easy!

My question is what is your opinion on why it can be so hard to accept being abdl for some people? like do you think it’s a social thing, low self esteem, having been previously shamed before