I’m going to a “littles” party at a dungeon with my play partner in about a month. I’m very nervous. It will be my first time really being intentionally little with her. I’m looking for a bit of advice and some answers to my questions, if anyone’s willing to help a newbie out.

She is very interested in ABDL and has expressed a lot of desire to see me in diapers, to diaper me, etc. I was pretty surprised by this. It wasn’t something I was initially all that interested in, but her enthusiasm for it has changed my mind completely. I want to try this with her very badly — and I want to do a good job for her.

This littles party has a bit of an odd rule, however: no wetting/messing. Diapers can be worn, but they can’t be used. It has me worried about the mechanics of the evening…

As someone who’s never worn one before, can I expect to get in and out of it on my own for regular bathroom breaks? Can the tape typically be re-taped/reused or is it more of a slip on/slip off situation? Should we forgo diapers for the event if wearing them means having a frustrating time trying to actually use the toilet?

I bought a pack of diapers and pull-ups, but I’ve been a little hesitant to try the actual diapers on my own because I want to save them for my time with her. I tried a pull-up style one. I wetted in the shower and learned very quickly that pull-ups are NOT great at holding urine. Veryyy glad I tried in there. Should we maybe stick to the pull-ups for the event instead of having fun with the real deal for play?

If anyone has any other sage wisdom or encouragement to share, I’ll be very grateful. Thanks! Cheers!