So the "discourse" around ageplay has gotten REALLY unforgiving. We're in a place now where someone in a diaper could appear on TikTok/TV, etc. This is nothing new, but what IS NEW is this like... almost cult-like unquestioning attitude of

"Well if it's non-sexual and involuntary, it's okay, that's called AgeRe and it's a mental issue and they can't help it"

and

"Ugh I cannot believe kink and seggs and people sexualize this stuff? Those ppl need to be iced. Oh and they use diapers too? how terrible. They're real dangers to children"

With no in between.

When I say "discourse", I'm not talking like, strictly twitter shit, either. I mean, I have the pleasure of going to parties, listening to people I know personally, IRL (family and friends) draw out disturbing, elaborate 'fantasies' as to who they THINK I am, without me having involvement or any say in it.

Something really burned me, a comment like, "not only are they kiddie r***sts but they smell like shit too". This was like the fifth time this summer that kink was brought up, and it all went down the same drain into "ew adult babies are gross and dangerous criminals", so I magically lost the ability to keep my mouth shut, and now that group won't talk to me. Even friends of 2-3 years.

ABDL has BOTH NON-SEXUAL and SEXUAL, and we operate under consensual scripts that only involve CONSENTING adults. We don't make any scenes, demand others cater to us or mingle minors with adults. How tf then, are WE the dangers again? Na, no, really, enlighten me.

I know a lot of ABDLs like to say, "ehh Idc about what others think," but, my brother in CHRIST, people are accusing you of CRIMES now and you're gonna let that shit slide?

On another, IMPORTANT note: I'm fucking sorry, but. the ppl who claim it's "involuntary", and "nonsexual", do they not realize the people who make these claims (AgeRe) usually force people to "parent" them non-consensually? They say things like, "IF I'M REGRESSED I CAN'T CONSENT, ITS NOT A KINK AND PEOPLE MUST TAKE CARE OF ME"

I see posts across the board, over and over, of like, confused boyfriends trying to handle an AgeRe gf and they don't really consent to it, but do it because they've been conditioned to believe that its legit. Also, the "nonsexual" crowd, don't they mingle minors and adults in the same spaces under the pretext that it's all "nonsexual"? How is that not harmful? Like, I'm sorry, but AgeRe spaces are always so bitter and toxic and dysfunctional and it's all victim olympics, and they pat themselves on the back about how they don't function. ABDL is REALLY just a bunch of regular adults that want to hang out, wear diapers, grill, and maybe be babied occasionally. Like I'm not up here trying to fire shots for petty, small, surface-level disagreements. These people have doxed us and accused us of crimes, and spun the narrative to make us look like monsters.