My birthday is coming up this week and as a treat to myself I'm thinking of going to the Mall of America (I live an hour away). I'm considering going diapered (discreetly). Despite having been many times before I've never gone padded so I've never checked if they have family or special needs restrooms that one could change in private. I've changed in stalls before but I get so scared of someone hearing the sound or more important seeing me carry a wet diaper from the stall to the trash. Anyone ever been padded at MoA and found a discreet restroom to change in?

Also I know in the last few years they've had a few shootings and heard they upped security. Are bags allowed in like a backpack or shoulder bag? Plan on bringing a discreet "diaper bag" if I can.