I recently became lucky enough to have a partner respond positively after telling them about this kink/fetish! I'm over the moon with this development but we've run into a bit of a roadblock. This is the first time I've shared this with someone I'm intimate with and we're both a little unsure of where to go with it. I have an issue "finishing" with a partner and words and dirty talk seem to help me get closer, but I don't have a super good idea of what I want those words to be. I'd like to avoid things directly related to diapers if possible, since we're waiting to dive into that particular aspect. That said, I love degradation, humiliation, over-protectiveness, and being talked down to.

So, my question for those with more experience and similar proclivity is, what words or phrases really send you over the edge when you're intimate with your partner? I would really appreciate any examples or advice you might have!