So there is this girl that I have been talking to for quite awhile. We met on a dating app but havn’t had our first date yet. Since this is not someone I know in person yet, I thought it might be a good opportunity to see what it would be like if I was upfront about my desire to wear diapers. The thought is that there is not much to lose if she stops talking with me, but there is potentially a lot to gain from the conversation. I have never told anyone outside of this community that I wear so it might be a good first step in that as well, although I really don’t plan on telling anyone. I would love to hear some thoughts and ideas on my situation.

Also, I am 23m and she is 22f. She also has two kids that she gets for part of the week in a joint custody situation.

I appreciate all the advice!