Don't get me wrong sex is something that's on the table but I'd prefer to keep the sexual stuff and my ab play separate. I get that for some people diapers are a turn on but for me they're more like a security blanket. When I make my ads I specify that I'm trans and that I'm looking for a play partner willing to more of a platonic dynamic where sex and ABDL are separate but can both be elements of our relationship. So why is it I get so many messages explicitly asking for sexual play. I list my wants fairly clearly. That and another when I express the fact that I wanna be talked to like a grown woman in the moment some people accuse me of being fussy.

This isn't about anyone in particular I'm just venting my frustrations when it comes to finding a partner