so this is gonna be kind of a long rant, and obviously this isn’t everyone in this community as i’ve met some really cool people here! but i feel like it needs to be said so people remember that when you’re talking to someone, you’re talking to a human. so the other night, i was diapered up, a little drunk, and was posting through abdl subreddits asking people to dm me if they wanted to talk. (i get talkative when i drink haha) and i get to this one guy who was asking me to do a bunch of stuff. now keep in mind, i told him that i still live with my parents and they were sleeping 3 doors down, and that i was trying to be quiet because of it. he responds by saying i have to “listen to daddy’s rules” out of nowhere, and if i didn’t then i was a “bad boy” (we never agreed to do anything but i was drunk so i assumed i did) well he asks me to send him a picture of me in my diaper which i do because i figured “why not”, and his next immediate response is that i need to loudly spank myself (at 2 AM) until i turn red in the bottom and send it to him when i’m done, even though i told him my parents are right down the hall. i tell him that i’m not really comfortable with sending nude photos of myself, but would be happy to send more pictures of me in my diaper if he wanted them. he responds by saying “daddy doesn’t have time for bad boys” and he logs off for the night. to me it’s just annoying that he was trying to get nudes from me and as soon as i said no he goes “fuck this”, and again, obviously i’m not saying this is the community as a whole because i really love it here! but i hope all of you remember that when you’re dm’ing someone that you’re talking to a real person and not just an object :3