So I'm talking to my coworker about kink as we do all the time and unique fetishes got brought up and she proceeded to say that she doesn't understand "adults who act like infants and get sexual. they're p*dos and need to unalive themselves" so I grasped for anything I could. I told her I watched this documentary about a femdom club that did provide that service and they compared an action to a different kink or a feeling you could have in association like humiliation and loss of power and so on. She eventually said she understood some of what I was saying and could never get into it but would love to talk to someone who was open enough to educate her. I honestly was dying laughing on the inside because of the irony.