hi. for context my girlfriend 30f is not previously into abdl stuff at all. i 22f get majorly choked up and anxious anytime i try telling my girlfriend any of my needs or wants as a little because i’m extremely embarrassed and, while i’m trying to work on it, i’m still very ashamed of myself at times for being into this stuff :/

i really just want to be babied by her and stuff, but i really am unsure how to communicate what a cg should do. or maybe exactly what i want but i don’t know whether it’s a general thing or a me thing. this is my first relationship at all, especially my first time doing abdl stuff with someone.

i just want to share this with her but it usually causes frustrations for both of us because i’m unable to communicate, she’s unsure of what to do, and then we just get stuck at a standstill where we either just give up or i cry. i know it has to be so frustrating for her but i’m not sure what to say to her or how to even go about saying it.

any advice ?