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I’m worried for the agere community as an abdl who used to be in the ager community
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Ok my main worries is that the way they talk and think about little space and sex is extremely toxic, Now having a non sexual space for littles who get triggered by sexual content, yes pls make that.

But that’s not what it is, it seems more accurate to say they are trying to view agere and equal to a child.

It’s not and it is totally damaging to think that way. You can go through the sub and find lodes of people struggling with sexuality related to regressing. All worried about it being bad, I was there and omg it’s terrible. You feel like a monster bc people are telling you that ager=child

I ended up in therapy where I was almost immediately told that it’s fine And kinda normal.

Anyway here are the thing I keep in mind and I hope to get out to the confused and hurting part of the agere community

1 regressing adult/teens are not kids 2 they do think and act similar to kids 3 part of being “kids” is curiousness 4 curiosity about your sexuality is normal, and exploring that in a safe environment can be beneficial 5 it’s about what you need

I personally am into abdl bc I was a victim of pedos and I know that being able to be regressing and safely explore sexuality on MY terms has been wonderful for my healing

The idea that this is always bad is a false narrative that is actually harmful to people that need that kind of healing

Idk what to do bc if you try to mention it you will get berated by people that won’t listen and instead insist that the way they feel about regressing is the right way, oh and they will attack you a lot

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