Attention this post is alot of whining and ranting but I believe some people need to hear this:

I want to take some time to talk about binge and purge but from a perspective that I think is under appreciated; those who are left behind.

I am extremely tired of doms and babies (I am a switch) who use me to cum then disappear into the void. I believe this is an extremely intimate kink so if I trust you enough to cg or be your little there is a unique trust there with emotional dimensions so when someone after a few days or hours of chatting pulls stakes and disappears it's not okay; it hurts.

I understand some people need to step back for personal reasons or don't want to continue the dynamic but by withdrawing without saying so much as goodbye or I can't do this anymore makes people feel worthless and used.

Binge and purge is something that many abdls struggle with but you owe it to people not to make it their issue too when they put trust in you.

Anyway that's my two cents. Questions, comments, concerns?