Hi everyone,

A few months ago I told my wife about this side of me and she's been handling it amazingly! I enjoy taking photos of myself in diapers, but she of course isn't SUPER into them. I have a Fetlife account and she knows about it already, so I asked her if it was okay if I posted some of the photos I have of myself on there. At the time, I thought it was totally harmless and I obviously made sure I asked her first because I love and respect her more than anything else. I asked her over text and she came back with asking why I wanted to share intimate photos of myself with strangers online. She then told me she now feels less secure in our relationship now that I asked that. Clearly she doesn't approve, so I won't be posting the pictures, but she is definitely disappointed and very hurt by this. I feel awful and ashamed of myself. What can I do to try and fix this? I'm legitimately freaking out a little bit about this. We've been together for over 5 years and have a whole life together. Any advice helps. Thanks!