So I know there's been plenty of discussions on here about people telling their significant others about their ABDL side and what not. But I've been seeing my now GF for roughly 3 months and we've gotten pretty intimate with each other in a vanilla sense and I've learned some things about her that I thought maybe somewhere down the line she'd be interested in some ABDL stuff but now I'm not so sure.

When we first got intimate with each other she was telling me how she's submissive and likes to be praised and called things like "good girl" and what not but not really in a BDSM kind of sub, she's also really into stuffed animals and childlike things, so that had me thinking she'd be cool with her being a little (I'm a switch)

But then we got into this odd discussion (odd to her not really to me) about how I wish I could wear a diaper to bed so I wouldn't have to get up in the middle of the night. And she wasn't having it. She said that she thinks diapers are uncomfortable because she associates them with pads and thinks they're uncomfortable. I told her in a half kidding way that I should wear a diaper just to prove to her that they're not uncomfortable, she told me that if I wore one that she wouldn't touch me in any sort of way and that a d*ck that's been in a dirty diaper is super gross to her.

So idk how to proceed, obviously I should tell her about this side of my life at some point because it's hard for me to ignore, plus keeping a secret like this is not healthy for a relationship.

Are there ways to ease her into it or when the time comes explain it in a way that sounds not as weird as it is? I'm willing to admit it's weird but I want to dumb it down or normalize it in a sense.