I was just curious about what others have to say! Personally I would say about 35% of my life is ABDL centered. About 10% of that 35 is actual diaper love. I use dips about 2 or 3 times a month, usually just for fun or when it's time for my cycle or when something goofy happens like the toilet in my house breaks. Other than that the AB part of my life has to just be how often I watch cartoons or eat dino nuggets and feel like a baby doing it. I am one of those people where I feel like being an ABDL is indeed a lifestyle for me but it's not my whole personality.

Actually sometimes I feel like I'm not involved enough in the community or that side of the furry fandom (as I am also a baby/diaper fur too) sometimes I feel that as a fat black girl its kinda hard to find my space in these communities. Between not having the "ideal sub body" and being told "black folks don't do that kink stuff" it can be really hard to feel loved and to fit in.