I'll try to make this as least advertisy as possible, but I'm struggling to find really anyone else who I connect with kink wise very well....

I'm just starting to try and dip my feet into finding a relationship (with kink in mind) for the first time after a long long relationship that introduced me to the community and ended rather poorly.

I've posted ads here and there, bit nothing much, and I've been trying to go to some events, but I stink at putting myself out there, so it's difficult. And it feels like most "switches" I find on personals or on FetLife either lean heavily little or just simply aren't switches at all... It also doesn't help that is seems like Massachusetts is very empty in the kink-world.

Does anyone sorta know of any other places where I'd be able to meet other switches (female specifically)? Or is it just keep doing the same until I come across the one?