Me and my “dom” have been in a dynamic for three years and married for one in June a little background is he’s never really officially been a daddy but when we first got together everything was fine I got plenty of time to be little and get into headspace I don’t do it for sexual gratification I do it for my mental health and iv told him this but I feel like he only views it as a sexual desire bc that’s all it is to him I have been struggling this month and told him I needed to be little and I just don’t understand the point in communication if he’s not listening to me I’m really honestly at a breaking point iv been needing him to be daddy and he’s just not there for me at all iv even communicated this and he acts like he’s listening but doesn’t actually do anything about it I bring up the possibility of getting another mommy or daddy and he’s completely against it but he’s also not willing to fulfill needs that I have it’s the anniversary of my sons death and im just struggling hardcore and not getting any help I’d be doing better if I could be little and normally if he wasn’t able to do this I’d just do it on my own but I can’t even do that anymore bc we have kids idk what else I can possibly do or say to get him to understand and even if I did I wouldn’t trust it bc he always acts like he’ll do something and agrees to make things better and then doesn’t