I felt like thinking about ABDL and my interest in it. I have never been in an ABDL relationship so much of this is just thought and not experience. I find writing it down helps me and decided to share it since I had it. These are just my thoughts and opinions so don’t take anything as fact. I would love to hear anyone’s thoughts so feel free to message me or comment below.

As a bit of background, I am a physically disabled and have very little use of most of my muscles (specifically Muscular Dystrophy). In my daily life I am in a wheelchair and have people who help me with activities around living. This probably sounds great to many in this community, but I do not involve them in this part of my life. This leads me to one of the aspects of ABDL that I will be talking about.

Helplessness- An aspect of ABDL that might be unique to a smaller number of littles in the community is helplessness. As I said above in my daily life, I am pretty helpless and depend on others to help me. In the world of cg/l relationships that setup is maybe even ideal but again I don’t make them participate as it is not appropriate. ABDL is sort of like I get to opt into helplessness and actually enjoy it. As a little I have a chance to be more helpless. For example, with diapers I am too helpless to use the bathroom and depend on a caregiver to monitor when I do and change me.

Power exchange- In general cases when somebody is wearing a diaper it is because the person is unable to use the bathroom. With babies it is because they aren’t developed enough to, and it is celebrated as becoming a big kid when they no longer need diapers. This basically instills that people who need diapers are lesser. For me being in a diaper when others are not immediately establishes that I am lesser. This sounds bad but I find it unexplainably exciting and pleasing. This is further enhanced if the diaper is wet or (especially) messy as someone with a soiled diaper is lesser than someone who is not even wearing one.

Trust- As a little it requires a lot of trust to fully submit to a caregiver and know that you will be taken care of. In my daily life I must direct my caregivers what to do when and sometimes they aren’t the happiest to help. In my ideal AB/DL situation I wouldn’t do any of that and instead be totally under the control and care of the caregiver. To have somebody I trusted that much and who was wanting and willing to is so incredible sounding. That’s all I have today but if people found this interesting, I would be happy to write some more around my sissy ABDL interests. Thanks for reading and please share any thoughts or opinions.
~Emma