We are happy to see our previous post was well received. So much so, we decided to do another…

Gentlemen, I want to offer you some perspective. Rather you know it or not, a couple doesn’t include you because there’s anything special about you. They include you because you have the potential to be useful in THEIR sex life. You have the option to accept or decline any invitation extended. We are tired of guys leading with sex. Respectfully, we don’t really care what you like. That should not be how you start a conversation. Start by introducing yourself, not “Hey” or “Hi”. We don’t know you, and didn’t reach out to you. So don’t reach out to couples unless you have something to say. I’ll say this again from my last post. If you want to hookup with a couple, be prepared to create the ambiance. You need to be willing to get a room to host, and party favors for everyone to enjoy themselves. The days of men allowing you to interact with their wives and getting subpar sex is over. You need to show a couple a good time. The same way you would date someone you like, it’s no different with a couple. You need to date them if you want to eventually make it to the bedroom. The only couples that won’t require that are the unattractive ones. Ask the couple how you can make their situation better. Remember, attractive couples have dozens of responses. What makes you stand out?