I think it’s fair to say that maybe on national tv don’t put out that you’re pantyless. Cool, say it once, I’m sure she understands. But Debbie continuously attacking Chantel because of it under the argument “you’re better than that” pisses me off so much. She’s okay with her life, she’s a grown woman, she knows the implications of her actions. Some old lady telling me how to be a proper lady would put me in defense mode because why does it matter to you so much. Debbie did the same thing to Sarper ( although Ik that’s a controversial topic too). I think both people were trying to let her know like, hey I live my life my way and it’s okay if you have a different view on it but you’re doing a lot. Reminds me of those people that insist on their religion being the only true one and if you don’t see things their way there’s something wrong with you. Sorry for the rant, the scene just triggered me a bit.