So I'm looking for a long term sub and by long term I would like an indefinite dynamic with the goal of collaring said sub. Someone that wants to put in effort to the dynamic as I plan to dedicate a lot of time to the sub I pick. With the right sub I would be open to a relationship on top of our Dom/sub dynamic.
About Myself: So going into detail about myself. I'm a 30 year old White (Greek and French) male who is 5’ 7" weighing in at 175 lbs with an average body build. I have a large beard and overall am rather hairy so if clean shaven is your thing I'm not the Dom for you. I have been in the lifestyle now for just over a decade which I'll go into more detail below. I’ll also outline a detailed list of hobbies and interests that I have as it would be nice to find a sub with some in common.
The Dynamic: The dynamic will have a unique structure built specifically around the sub and myself. It will have rules to follow that will address aspects such as how to dress for training, behavior both in private and in public, communication and how to address me, reward and punishment structure, dynamic goals and stages of progression through the dynamic, and task structure for the dynamic. Stages will be spread out and designed around specific goals to each stage. This allows for proper dynamic flow based on a subs ability to serve, allowing for a more relaxed paced dynamic if time to serve is limited. The dynamic itself will also have a base communication structure, built around respect and trust that is built over time.
Experience and Kinks: Touching on my experience and being in the lifestyle for over a decade i have worked with a fair share of subs and two slaves in the dynamic. There has been a mix of short term training and two longer term dynamics with subs. One of those lasted 2 years before I relocated to Virginia and the other lasted 3 years before she was relocated as she was in the Navy. The kinks that I heavily focus on all revolve around teasing and bondage. I like to pair physical domination with just as much mental domination and build up. Yes this means long periods of foreplay to build up to sex. Tying you up, teasing you while blindfolded, biting and kissing around your body before properly using you and getting nice and rough with you. Some kinks include bondage, impact play, orgasm manipulation, squirting, wax play, use of toys, gags, blindfolds and plugs, creampies, breeding, stretching, insertions, with plenty of others based on the sub I'm working with. Now just because I listed off these kinks does not mean they all have to be included in a dynamic with you. I do take into account your limits and can ease you into things if you are newer to the lifestyle.
My interests: I have a long list of hobbies and skills as I spend a lot of time absorbing information, hence why I'm so detailed in my dynamics. So starting the list off I have a facility background, paired with Information Technology schooling and formal automotive training. This makes for a massive list of hobbies and skills ranging from working on cars and construction to gaming and creating custom technology solutions for day to day use. I also do photography on the side with a heavy focus on nature photography, automotive and a little kinky photography from time to time. So with time and trust if you're not camera shy I would love to explore some fun and kinky photography ideas. I also recently purchased a house that I'm doing a lot of renovations and upgrades to and doing most of the work myself. So if you like DIY projects that's a plus.
About you: So let's talk about the type of sub I'm looking for. To start with I do not have any preferences on your experience. If you are new to the lifestyle I have no problem easing you into the lifestyle and helping you explore your kinks and limits. Those new to the lifestyle allow me to mold you to my experience and structure without having to adjust your previous training. For those already in the lifestyle I’m just as happy to work with you as I can reshape you to fit the dynamic we create. As far as body type I tend to prefer fun sized subs 5’ 2” and under, not that I'm opposed to subs that are taller. Another preference and not a deal breaker is race. I love Asian and Indian subs above other races, however I would still love to work with other fun sized subs if we click and our kinks line up. As far as your personality, I prefer submissiveness in the bedroom and don't have an issue if you are less submissive in your day to day life. I love subs that are smart and can keep up intellectually as I'm constantly learning. As far as age I’m open to subs of all ages.
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