Hey everyone! Just a quick-ish question. Do you like smoking weed before sex? Also, if you're comfortable answering do you have an adhd/add diagnosis?

I'm waiting on a call to have a diagnosis as an adult. From my research and preliminary testing with a counselor I lean positively towards passive adhd (day dreaming, trouble focusing on mundane tasks, hyper focusing on others, being overwhelmed which causes depressive symptoms).

I find sex is usually much better with weed, as I can focus much better and visualize fantasies that can be hard to really "feel" when I'm sober.

Meanwhile for my husband who isn't adhd..he finds almost the opposite. Where the weed makes him feel everything and he can't focus on his ahem..completion.