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I am an ISFJ. I honestly don’t know what my enneagram type is, although people have most often guessed 9w1 or a 6.

I will admit that I am colder than I may seem to be, or that I personally think I am (although I don’t know how cold I may seem to be to others, I don’t really know how I actually appear to others/how others perceive or regard me. I used to worry about this sometimes, and I still think about it now, but not to the obsessive extent I did in middle school. In middle school, I really wanted to be popular. As an adult, I see how silly this desire was.) I had a particularly stressful work day today, I notice that I am always in a worse mood when it’s particularly chilly (I prefer summer, I’m always happier in summer.) I found myself feeling quite pessimistic due to the events of today, and actually mentioned this in a reflection for my Psychology course tonight. I have depression and anxiety, but on some days I manage it well and on others I just feel kind of downtrodden, like today.

I apparently seem quite calm sometimes, to a point wherein a parent remarked on it, but I also actually feel stressed a lot. Today was partly so stressful because I have been thinking a lot about my future. I don’t even know how decent I am at my job (I really do try to communicate, I am big on communication) and today with the defiance from the two-three year olds I just felt like I was failing, and I already woke up feeling kind of sick so that wasn’t too fun. I have a lot of trouble getting my sleeping schedule together, I was probably so stressed today in part because of how sleepy I’ve been. However, I also just realized that I think my period is about to start (I can feel the cramps coming on) which I’m sure is a factor.

I don’t really like to try new foods and am sometimes not comfortable going outside of my comfort zone. I watch “The Simpson’s” when I return home from work to help myself destress. When people aren’t consistent and don’t communicate effectively, I think that this makes me a bit more… agitated/unhealthy on some level.

I would want to ensure that I were available for my romantic partner, and helped them learn and grow as a person, in the same way they’d ideally help me learn and grow as a person. I recall that I wanted my ex boyfriend to text me more often than he tended to (I have recognized that we were quite incompatible - he was most likely either a 6w5, 5, or 9w8. Different guesses have been made in regards to what his type most likely was.) I try to read, but since I’m so busy now I’ve been reading less often.

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