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29 [M4f] #NY : Dominant, high energy man looking for a submissive woman who is serious about this kind of long-term relationship
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beren4luthien is a male age 29 looking for a female in New York
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I'll start this post by saying that I'm looking for a submissive woman, younger than myself, who is serious about being kept as a 1950's housewife by a controlling and dominant husband. I'll go into the key details below, but do not worry if you do not check each of the boxes. So long as you are willing to work hard to be molded into my ideal partner and devote yourself entirely to your man, then that is what I am looking for. I will break you down and rebuild you into the best version of yourself you can be. Yes, you will be dependent and devoted to me, but I will be the same to you. Contrary to most people on here, I do not actually think my partner is beneath me, although I still do believe in controlling and exerting dominance over her. Not because I'm a man, but because she chooses to submit to me and bend to my will. We are two parts to this relationship and we both need to put in the necessary effort to make it work. You serve and love and care for me, and I will provide and love and care for you.

I've always known that this is the kind of relationship I want. I have been working towards this for a long time. It honestly feels like I've been laying the ground work to have this dynamic for the past decade now and I'm excited that I am finally in a stage of my life where I can start seeking to make this a reality. I demand a lot from myself and work hard at what I do so I would expect nothing less from my partner. I studied hard in school to get a high paying job in STEM specifically so that my future partner would not have to work for income and can devote her hard work to us instead. I was a chubby kid and worked hard to get in shape, so I would expect my future partner to take care of herself as well. I try to better myself whenever I can through books, classes, and hard work whenever I can, all to prepare myself to be the best husband and man I can be.

If you've read this far and are still interested, you're probably wondering what exactly life with me will be like. I'll be up front and honest. I'm a very controlling and dominant man. As such, I will give you a set of rules and outline tasks which are your responsibility. This will include anything from controlling how you dress and what you eat, having you seek permission for going out of the house, how I want you to keep the house, what meals I would like you to cook, how I like to be serviced, and what ways I'd like you to improve yourself. I'm a little bit of a sadist and very big into punishments to correct behavior (and for fun as maintenance punishments). As I said earlier, I want to mold you into the best version of yourself you can be. I'm also quite kinky and have few limits. I understand why some people might view this as an abusive relationship but I do not see it that way. If you message me, you know what you are getting into.

I also believe in having a healthy vanilla side to a relationship. Yes, sometimes you'll suck my cock in nothing but a collar while I eat the dinner you made for me after a long day at work, but we also need to be able to go on date nights, goof off together, and have boring conversations about taxes or where we want to go on vacation. To that end, let me describe myself a bit. My vanilla self is a pretty dorky guy. I work in a STEM field weekdays but like to stay busy whenever I can by joining clubs or going to the gym. My hobbies include spending time in the outdoors, playing or watching sports, videogames, traveling, cooking (I'm actually a pretty good cook if I say so myself), reading, and hanging out with friends. I enjoy learning about and trying new things, competing, and am 420 friendly. Physically, I am 6'0", about 180lbs, have some tattoos (planning on getting more though), dark brown hair and eyes and I have facial hair (length varies).

This post has gotten to be much longer than anticipated but I feel like I can talk about this relationship all day. If what I wrote intrigues you, shoot me a chat or DM. Wishing you all good luck in your search and hope to hear from my forever partner soon.

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