Hello you,

We don't know each other yet, but together we're going to make something beautiful.

I'm a college educated man with 8 years experience as a Dom. I live in New England and work in management in an engineering field. I have a broad-shouldered build, dark hair, green eyes (behind glasses), and a neatly trimmed beard.

Here's what truly matters: I'm seeking a joyful and loving 24/7 D/s relationship with you, lifetime commitment, marriage and children when the time is right.

You yearn to be freed from the stress and strife of the outside world. Having such lack of direction causes so much needles anxiety and I want to give you fulfillment through my leadership. You wish for a chest to lay your head on every night, a hand on your lower back or neck to guide you, an arm to find comfort under, and a firm grip on your wrists to remind you of your desire to simply let go. You crave being held in blissful submission through heartwarming affection, gentle guidance, and clear rules. You want to be held accountable and receive sensible punishment when warranted, but that's only a tiny fraction of life. You want an emotionally available and dependable provider, protector, and lover—the kind of husband who inspires adoration and obedience instead of commanding it.

People like us are scarce, but all the more reason to be fearless in our shared identity. We find happiness in rediscovering our traditional gender roles and providing mutual devotion in our complimentary ways. I'll take on the primary responsibilities of the outside world, allowing you the space to create a peaceful and rejuvenating home—a space that only you can bring to life. I know most 25 year old men are out thrill-seeking hedonistically, but rest assured I know what I want. It is important to me that when our children leave the nest, I still have the vitality to keep pace with my wonderful woman. This choice will not be easy, but with a driven and capable man, a resourceful and supportive woman, and an abundance of love, we will make our dream of a simple life real.

Speaking about you, your character means more to me than your appearance, although I do have some preferences. I will find it beautiful if you currently dress, or are interested in dressing, more modestly. I'm not put off by alternative features like tattoos or piercings. I'm particularly drawn to the shorter and small-framed who are fit or working towards fitness. Who you are comes first so don't be disheartened if that doesn't describe you now. If you have light eyes, I'll see that very favorably as well.

Neurodivergence is common in our lifestyle, so don't be afraid if you are ADHD or ASD. If you are a Christian or are interested in faith, I especially welcome you to reach out. I grew up neither traditionally, nor religiously, but as time goes on I believe we are realizing the wisdom of some of the old ways. I would love to explore religion with you. Intelligence, both academic and emotional, is also a major factor for me that can't be understated. I firmly believe homeschooling is the best education a child can receive and it is important that our children grow up to be well-educated, independent thinkers who are strong, generous, and emotionally stable. I want them to admire these traits in their father and mother, as well as in our harmonious marriage.

A long term relationship means investing in ourselves and each other, so desire for growth is valued over what you have now. We may not be exactly who we aspire to be, but together we can progress one step at a time. We can both accept and love each other and our faults, while helping each other outgrow our inadequacies. Pertaining to miscellaneous preferences: please be eloquent; capable of communicating your emotional needs; value personal hygiene; be my age or less; prefer cats over dogs; not be on hormonal birth control (I'd be happy to explain this preference later); and be willing to relocate in time if required.

Each day, I want to be in awe of your grace, brilliance, and warmth. You are a treasure—a remarkable and passionate woman. Your trust, love, support, service, submission, fidelity and fertility are the greatest gifts I will ever receive. I am determined to match your dedication and make you feel cherished, safe, loved, and supported in my dominance. You deserve a man who is willing to sacrifice everything to lead you and our future family.

We'll save discussions about hobbies and more intimate topics for direct messages, where we can bond in privacy. Special kudos for having a variety of interests, especially if they are niche, old-school, nerdy, or otherwise unexpected. Rest assured, I'm not always this intense—I have a much lighter side too. If you prefer another platform, I'm happy to accommodate you. I hope to hear what touched you most in your reply. I'm excited to learn about you.

Until I hear from you, stay safe and be well,

-T