Bottom-Line Up-Front:

Looking for a local Cis/Bio-woman, 18-36 for a full-spectrum relationship, potentially leading to traditional 50s-style household.

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My take on the 1950s lifestyle is this; my overall goal in my career is to be able to support at SAHM/SAHW whose job is to take care of the house within her abilities and raise our children while I'm at work. I think this produces the best partnership duo and is the best model for raising kids. This is what I am working towards in my career now.

But we gotta get there first, Doll.

So, with that in mind, what I want right now is a relationship, ideally leading to marriage and kids eventually. But right now? Someone awesome I can get to know in a dynamic where we can share our lives together.

I'm not into this male-superiority/female-inferiority stuff. I can roleplay that, but the closest you get to that from me IRL is that I've actually read feminist doctrine and I reject it as both anti-women and anti-male. So, having established that I please neither side of that aspect of the community, who am I, then?

My view on traditionalism is basically that men and women are different, but equal partners in a team where both provide strengths and cover each other's weaknesses. I think the greatest gift two people can give their children is a happy and strong marriage in which to raise them, followed by their time. As such, I think that traditionalism meshes well with my own beliefs and drives to take care of my woman in every way.

I am a goals-oriented professional, with my own home and a vehicle I own. I place great weight in traditional values and ideals, but I'm not a monolith either. I have my education and I have and continue to study history, philosophy and politics, among other, less-weighty topics. I am capable and confident in my profession, fairly handy around the house and a mean cook to boot.

On the BDSM-side, I have about 15-years experience, mainly as a Daddy, but also covering pleasure- and gentle-dominance. My main interests here being forced and multiple orgasms and behaviour modification. I'm not into inflicting pain for it's own sake, or humiliation and degradation. The most you'll get from me is the occasional spanking when you need it and I never want to make my girl feel like a slut, but always and vitally; *my slut*.

I have quite a bit to offer on the fun-side.

First of all, I have a talent for helping women who are tormented by what they often describe as a "spinning mind", "rushing thoughts" or "brain won't stop racing". Basically; I am very good at creating a safe space for you to decompress, feel protected and at peace and relax and enjoy yourself. This almost always helps these negative, anxiety-producing feelings.

Inherently; I like taking good care of my woman. I want to help you relax, make you feel good and feel *better* after spending time with me, in whatever form of intimacy is practical. I want to hear about your day, I want to hear about the things you are passionate about and I want to rub your back, your shoulders, your feet, your hands while you tell me. I think my partner deserves care and attention just as much as I do after a long day, whether her day has been taking care of the house and kids or after we're both done work. This is something I enjoy for it's own sake.

As well, I think that BDSM and the 50s-lifestyle go together like bacon and eggs. We might (or might not) look like responsible adults, but that doesn't mean we can't have fun too, right?

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, drop me a line.