Hello there!

I’m a black woman born in the states and raised in the Caribbean. I’m a polyglot and hold a degree in child and forensic psychology.

I consider myself traditional in the oldest sense. I think of it more as a lifestyle and unfortunately we’ve strayed far from it. I guess in the clearest sense, I’m looking for a partner with traditional values who doesn’t view it as a kink and more as the way things should be.

I’m from Connecticut but currently in the process of fixing my home to sell after a bad breakup (last year). I’ve done a lot of thinking and planning and I truly see myself settling down in Maine or somewhere of a similar landscape.

I recently got back from a trip to Maine helping a friend with her newborn and the beauty and tranquility I felt on their little farm was above anything else I could ever wish for.

If I could have things my way, I’d prefer to be a SAHM. Though I understand everyone is at different financial stages in their lives. Currently I have a well off career and good passive income. I would be comfortable continuing to work until children come into the picture.

Relationship wise, I would consider myself very attentive. I cook, clean, and bake. I currently garden and would love to homestead on a small scale and homeschool my children. I’m looking to build with someone. I want to build and cultivate a little family in the mountains where our future kids can run around in the woods.

I am looking for the protectiveness and structure without the disrespect. I want to be seen as a partner, a wife, a mother - not property. I am submissive but I do not expect to be treated like an animal or an object.

Please have respect. I’m looking for my future husband, not a fling. If you expect your future wife to just jump into sending nudes and sexting, then you aren’t the man for me.

I was taught to take care of myself and my surroundings. In the long run that would include my future husband, children, and home.

About you;

I’m looking for a partner between 25-40 preferably taller than 5’9. Someone established in their career or making the necessary steps towards homesteading. Ideally like minded in my traditional values.

Want to have children. At least 2. I’m not looking to jump into having children. I’m looking for commitment. And I’m sure we could both agree, nobody wants to have a child with the wrong person. And I certainly don’t want a man to feel like I’m trapping him. I believe in marriage be for children above all else.

I would like a partner that is comfortable leading our household, while also having the vulnerability to allow me to lead the family and teach our children. Someone who would confide in me for an opinion out of respect but ultimately have the final say as the man in the house.

I want a dominant man with passion. Who isn’t afraid to let others know that I’m their woman. A man who isn’t afraid to show his love and receive love in return.

I love men who can have intellectual conversations as easy as breathing. I value intellect. There’s nothing more enticing to me than a man who can express himself using linguistics.

I also grew up on a farm so country boys hold a special place in my heart. I prefer country life to inner city living.

I look forward to hearing from you! 💕