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28 [M4F] # quad city #ia soft dom looking for future wife
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fred12577 is a male age 28 looking for a female in Iowa
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Hello thank you for stopping by. Sorry about any grammar and spelling errors. If that bothers you a lot you might want to stop here. If your open to helping me improve then I hope to hear from you.

I have been doing a lot of self growth and learning lately. I've come to realize that what I truly want is emotional intimacy. I have always gotten a taste of it from fwb or other bdsm realtionships I have had in the past. I don't think I'll find someone on reddit, but my work currently has me in the midwest. I am really bord and don't really like the woman in the area. I am not intrested in polyamory, or teaching someone how to live there life's, or people trying to grasp on to mine and drag me down.

What I am looking for is a woman I can respect and love. What I respect is cofedencie in who you want to be, hard work, and a desire to learn. I want her to care about her health and her future. Now for a bit about me. I am a blue collar worker and get my highest level certification in October. I have worked for 4 years to get it. I am saving up for a house and plan to find somewhere I can settle down at. I am very handy, I have a lot carpentry, automotive, computer, and electrical skills. When I run into a problems I enjoy learning how to fix it. My health is one of my highest priorities. I have very strict core values I try to live up to. For example I don't lie and try be a man of my word. I don't want to go into all of them right here. I am also very strict about taking very good care of myself and the people in my life. I do my best to be open to other emotions and support them. This is a new skill I am working on, i used to be a lot more of a block head, haha. I take criticism well and will always look into any that I am given to see if I can grow. Even if in the moment I don't think it's true. In my free time, I enjoy photography, DIY, anime, reading, guns, and going to events.

My ideal relationship is one where we are emotionally monogamous. I don't care to sleep around, but if my partner wants to be purely physical with someone else, I don't mind. I am very much a service sub and want to make my dom happy. I like to learn as much as I can about her and do things without her asking me. I want her to be able to just enjoy herself. I want to work on projects with my partner. I don't think we need to have exactly the same interests, just the same core values, and enjoy spending time together. I think working on projects is a good way to bond and spend time. A project could be anything where we share goal. For example going out shopping to get new clothes for one us or redecorating the house. I am open to how the D/s dynamic would look, everyone is different and I don't think having a set idea of how it should work or look and trying to find the perfect person is realistic. I do have years of experience being a daddy dom in a ddlg realtionship. I have been in scene for 10 years, most of it irl. My favorite thing is to make my partner happy. I am definitely a pleasure dom. I like to play with my Sub.

I have had a pretty wild life and have some unique views on the world. I promise you won't meet anyone else like me.

I am looking for people in mountain, central, or eastern time zones. I travel a lot and planning to move soon any way. so distance isn't super important.

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