Greetings

I am a 53yr old single dad , stable, blonde hair, blue eyes muscular build , provider, protector and natural caregiver as a single dad. I am kind, caring, loving, funny, respectful and more. Grew up southern gentleman, traditional values home dynamic. I have always been a provider and caregiver from the age of 13 and still now as a single dad.

I am seeking a like minded attractive female who desires a ready made family and the burning lust to create a loving family home dynamic that involves their deep desire to be a mother figure to my child , showing her class and dignified behavior and core morals etc. as well as conducting her own actions in such fashion as she is a reflection of me and our home.

While on the other hand , desires that free use dynamic as well ,lets face it any one with a family knows , shits hectic, you either get it when you can get it, or you stop getting it and the relationship dies. Along with your feelings for each other etc. I am seeking something a more spicier as an idea for keeping things interesting, in life and our relationship as we grow stronger daily in deeper connection and love and devotion based on respect, honor, appreciation for one another and what we do or the sacrifices we make or one another on a daily bases,

I understand , it's hard getting up before your provider and protector goes to do his daily deeds to support his family , honorably , proudly , helping him with extra support putting a smile on his face from the lovely wake up he received , versus an asshole alarm clock, breakfast going , coffee brewing, as he can smell it more and more as you hand it through the shower curtain, with your lovely talented added treats of breakfast routine.

Spending the early hours having your coffee as you dress the children an prepare for the day a head, school, daily duties for the home and duties of everyday life. But it's ok everyone is happy and excited about the day , with a structure dynamic, with rules and guidance.. so everyone knows and appreciates their roles with in our home and family. Having the support and companionship with a deep friendship base at its core of wanting only the best for one another.

Well off he goes , so now what ? Well there's that desire of being that supporting role in the home , they do say behind every good man is a good woman, And i do find that to be true in most cases , I hope to find one of my own actually who builds me up, says kind things, respects and appreciates me for my efforts to provide and give her what she desires asap etc. and spoil her when I can etc. versus acting like its just entitled , I mean every man, well real man anyways , wants to take care of his girl, but you can at least say thank you , or show it some kind of way , right ?

Kind of goes to that sacrifice thing, I mean I do want a lady , so nails do have to be done etc. You did just clean a toilet. I worked a janitor job one time way back in the day... bet you will never guess how many toilets i cleaned in an hour and i got 14 bucks. ill pay for that One!!! its deserved . but she also deserves to be somewhat independent or in a position to be if need to be , with job if she desires, i prefer part time my self while children are in school, unless we desperately need the money. I really don't pay attention to it, i make it i spend it i know its there to cover it etc. but it needs to be tracked etc. better , and lord knows homemaker i am not, cant decorate, and if your waiting on me for dinner, you might want to grab a sandwich on the way. just saying. :-)

well , thanks for reading my rambles as i was getting high , sitting here thinking about the home that smells like Christmas holidays, or the scent of a woman as you walk through the room. The soft and inviting body to gently wrap my strong arms around after we had dinner , at 7 pm, because as i said we on a schedule , not really because you want to be but there is only so many hours in the day right and after work well im hungry and i work long hours some times, so well it would be nice to have that understanding wife and partner, who when time comes around and the foods not ready by 7pm, either just by chance or maybe she planed it knowing what she would here next just for a little bratty behavior and a heart felt need for attention.

" You'll do , " (as shes pressed across the kitchen table,)

Well if any of my ramblings sound interesting , feel free to say hello and let me know which part. obviously im pretty board so around for a chat . :-) Think I will go eat a sandwich now. :-)

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