Howdy all! This is going to be a long post. I’m specifically looking to find my forever partner and I want to lay out who I am and what I’m looking for clearly. I’m not looking to find as many matches as possible, I’m looking to find my one submissive for a lifelong dynamic.

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So first and foremost, to not waste anyone’s time, some limits and deal breakers to weed out those who are not a match.

• If you are a tobacco smoker, we won’t work.
• If you are conservative or strongly religious, we are not a match. I am not anti-religion or a party loyalist, but I do not agree with the majority of these viewpoints.
• If you have pet allergies. I have a dog and cat and always will, as well as other pets.
• If you have kids. I’m open to potentially starting my own family, but I have no interest in stepping into the step dad role.
• You are in/want a poly/ENM relationship. I’m open to exploring our sexuality, I have no interest in sessions that don’t involve my partner and I together.
• If you are looking for external validation while already in an unsatisfying relationship, I am not for you. Fix your own relationship or get out of it. Don’t involve someone else.
• If you are looking for someone who drips machismo and instantly commands respect, I am not for you. I am not here to fill a role as kink dispenser for you, no more than you are for me. Your submission is, rightfully, earned. My domination is equally earned.
• If you have low libido or are asexual, we are not a match. I have a higher-than-average libido and need someone who can closely match this.
• My kink limits include blood play/cutting, scat, age regression (fine outside the bedroom, limit inside), ABDL, bladder control/bathroom use, and permanent damage. Soft limits include piss play and hardcore/intense CNC scenes or more extreme humiliation. On top of this, if anal play is a limit for you, I’m sorry we won’t work. Outside of these, I’m open to exploring and trying most things at least once.

For those of you who are still with me, hello! I’ll follow up with some info on what kind of Dom I am and the type of dynamic and relationship I’m looking for. Afterwards, I’ll explain more about who I am individually.

I am a Daddy/Pleasure Dom looking for his forever submissive/pet. I don’t consider myself a sadist, but I have no problems with putting a brat in her place. Ultimately, I’m looking for someone who willingly submits to me, not looking to constantly challenge me. Outside of dynamic and play, I enjoy spoiling my submissive as a princess and connecting with her emotionally over our interests. I am a romantic and my dating style reflects this. Do you find simple dinner dates old and cliché? Do you want your Dom to provide physical and emotional security while leaving you flustered and excited when flirting? Do you want to enjoy and explore life together as a couple? We may be a good match. Inside play, I want my personal slut and toy. With an array of kinks from romance and praise to bondage and obedience training, I want to explore our fantasies together. Bonus points to rope enthusiasts!

Do you want your Dom to take the lead and guide you through life? Do you want your Dom to set daily tasks designed to both take care of yourself and let out your inner slut? Do you seek to please your Dom through service submission? I am seeking a fair power exchange, but not a 100% trade. We are individuals and both need our time to be ourselves. Ideally, if able in today’s economic environment, I’d love a housewife who cares for the home while I provide for the family and come home to my submissive kneeling and eagerly greeting me in a 1950’s-esque dynamic. I am open to potentially starting a family, but I am happy living that DINK lifestyle too.

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If you’re intrigued by the above, please continue to learn more about me.

I am a single 34yo cis male from Oregon. Never married, no kids, liberal-leaning, non-religious. I’m 6’2”, shaved hair, red bearded, blue eyed, Caucasian (Irish and Nordic), and chubby yet active. I’m currently on a fitness journey at the gym, trading a lot of bad habits to become a healthier version of myself. I have a couple large tattoos and plan on getting many more.

I have a 3yo boxer and 3yo cat, both high energy and very demanding of my attention, so I’m used to and enjoy clinginess. I’m an avid reader and writer, I free-dive in the ocean bay, and am an amateur mushroom hunter. There are hiking trails just a few yards from my front door an I’ve loved exploring and seeing what I can find. I love working in the kitchen and experimenting with recipes. I am weed friendly, but do not partake. One of those bad habits I just don’t need anymore. Largely drug free. I’m not much of a video gamer anymore but prefer the socialization of board and card games. I just don’t have the time anymore, but I’d love to play games with my future forever submissive. I am a former swing dancer. Covid killed a lot of opportunities, but I want to get back into dancing and exploring that again.

I have often been called a love-child crossbreed of Chandler Bing and Ron Swanson. Banter and teasing are my love languages. Close seconds are words of affirmation and physical touch. I’ve had friends and coworkers call me both intense and calming simultaneously. I have a more laid-back personality and approach until the switch is turned on. That can happen from either crisis in life or a submissive who needs to be reminded who’s in charge.

I have worked in healthcare for 10 years now. It is a demanding job, but I do love it. I currently work a night shift schedule, so my hours are a bit all over the place. I am back in school to further my career into medical imaging. The next few years of my life are set; I’ll likely be starting my program this fall, and the next 2 years I’ll be at uni. The third year after will be an externship which is more flexible to location. Afterwards, I’ll have a career path that has lots of travel opportunities. I intend to use this to explore the country for several years, going on adventures and seeing what I can see, before finding a place to settle down where I’ll eventually build a shipping container home. I enjoy hosting events and will have a restaurant style kitchen, a large open floor for dancing, and a home dungeon that I would love to host with.

If this calls to you, I’d love to hear from you. Please send me a message/chat with your favorite animal in the intro. Physical attraction is not a key component, but a necessary aspect of dating. I am willing to verify shortly after messaging and you must be too. I am open to long-distance. I would want us to travel and see each other at least on occasion, but must be open to relocation in time. I am open to most western/European countries, my career path can be transferred or expanded out of the country and I would be willing to do this for the right person.

I’m focused on building my life and enjoying the journey. I want to find my partner to share this with, but I know that may take time. I’ll be dropping this on occasion to leave lifelines for her to find.