Hello there. Call me Rand. Yes I can ramble and run on, but I think the right girl won't mind and may even enjoy the longer post.

I'm a 34 year old man that works IT in a remote position, but my family and friends are here, so have no intention of leaving Utah. About 6'1", average weight with brown hair and dark blue eyes - yes they are gorgeous. Contain your jealousy lol. I'd say I can be a bit playful in that I joke around a decent amount. Which can range from dry sarcasm and wit to goofy dad jokes. Though I will be stern or stoic when need be. ie when my sub needs to be reminded whose in charge.

I'm also pretty nerdy and love rock music - been on a huge Coheed and Cambria fix. Also gone down a great rabbit hole of Foo Fighters, Falling in Reverse, and others lately. I love Fantasy/sci-fi shows, movies, and books - Brandon Sanderson fanboy. Also a big gamer, video and table top. Been playing Final Fantasy 7 Rebirth since it dropped. I play D&D and Warhammer weekly - if you couldn't tell by the rest of my post history lol. Mostly introvert, but still can be pretty social, it'll just leave me drained. I love animals, only have a cat right now. But would love to either get another or a dog... or two.

Raised Mormon, but would consider myself inactive though still lean towards that religion if not as much the church itself. I'm more of a right leaning liberation/moderate politically speaking, so make of that what you will.

As mentioned in the title, I'm from Utah. I would prefer someone that either lives closer or would be willing to relocate in the future. I'm fine with starting online while we get to know each other though. I do like to get to know someone as a person first, and not rushing into things. But I also understand something like a lack mutual attraction is hard to move past. So probably share pictures relatively early makes the most sense to me.

I do want someone that I can come home to and cuddle with as much as someone that will submit to me and be my lil homemaker. Also would be great to have someone I could take to family dinners and the like. So looking for kinky behind closed doors, but can win over my family. Of the 5 love languages Physical Touch and Quality Time are the most important to me. Not saying you have to be the same, but just helping you to understand how I show my affection. So to me, staying in and just hanging out in the same room, with occasional interaction is as appealing than going out for the evening.

I want something more like traditional gender roles relationship, how they say on here a 50s style. Someone that will handle most of the household cooking and cleaning. I'm willing to work with specifics of course. And I do enjoy cooking every so often, so we’d work that in as well. Someone that would eventually take care of our children. I don't have any yet and have never been married. I am looking for something monogamous that will eventually lead to marriage and a family. Prefer for my woman to be between 24-33, but willing to be somewhat flexible. Prefer someone that is shorter than me and relatively HWP.

Giving it some thought, the inability to have children is not a deal breaker, because adoption is always an option. But not interested in someone that never wants children.

My Kinks: Dom/Sub, to me being a Daddy Dom is about protecting and caring for my sub as much as punishment and control. Helping her to be the best version of herself while knowing I have someone in my corner through thick and thin. Also into breeding - both RP and then after marriage, real deal - spanking, orgasm control, begging, and maybe some choking. You know, the normal stuff lol. I love the idea of collaring my woman. So big fan of that or chokers for more public us. Some Brat training can be fun, but I prefer a mostly Good Girl. I'd like a level of 24/7 TPE and a level of free-use, but the level and details would be worked out between us. And that doesn’t so much have to mean constant bdsm and sex. More just our lives have that knowledge of where we stand at all times. Even if we joke and play around with each other. And do stupid relationship stuff as well. I love the thought that at any moment, I could take what’s mine to remind her of that fact.

I'm also a big fan of dirty talk, so I've realized that's why gags don't really appeal to me very much. I want to hear my woman.

My Hard Limits: Scat, Gangbangs, sharing my woman with other men in any fashion - whats mine is mine. Permanent damage, Pegging, underage. Though I'm a Daddy, I'm not interested in ABDL. No drugs or smoking. I don't drink myself, so light drink on your part, at most.

Other kinks and limits I'd like to talk and work out between us. Might have interest in anal or threesomes with other woman. But those are just possible interests and not a need, let alone deal breaker.

Chat me if you are interested. Message is fine, it just seems slower to me. Send me a bit about yourself and what caught your interest with my post, this will help me know that you read the at least some of this crazy long ramble lol.

And because manners are important. Thank you for your time and consideration.

Yours Truly,
Rand, aka Potentially Daddy.

PS. I really hate how bad Reddit is with pasting so I probably will have to go back and edit. Since of course I'm posting this to more than one subreddit lol