Free use, making yourself sexually available, banging and blowjobs and all of that is a very good thing for a wife to offer to her husband.

But laying there and letting him do whatever, or bending over and taking it however, pales in comparison to a woman who is very "into it" and eager and enthusiastic about it!

When a wife is an active participant with her husband, when her desire matches or exceeds his own, when she can't wait to get it on and enjoy it all with him, it ratchets the excitement up several factors, it exceedingly heightens the experience, and there's exquisite pleasure to be had that just isn't there otherwise.

That's what a man looks for in a woman.

He wants to know she wants him.

And her actions are evidence of it.

Desire. Attraction. A longing to please him.

It all adds up to an explosive bedroom experience for a man and woman.

This shouldn't be an every once in awhile kind of thing, but an every day activity and experience.

Not for special occasions, but common place.

There's times for a quickie and just getting it on to have that release. Maybe you're not into it as much. It happens. It's healthy. It's good.

But the vast majority of the time, it should be like the world is ending tomorrow and we're making this the time of our lives! And then doing it the next day.

If you're a woman, be a wife like that.

And men, this goes for you too. You're the Captain. Lead!