About 2-3 weeks ago I finally shared with my wife my fantasy of BBC MMF threesome. Deep down this is rooted in my desire of her to become a hotwife, but one step at a time lol. The conversation went great (I had previously posted but deleted bc of the attention it was receiving-still a bit nervous about all this) and we started with sharing pictures in Reddit and other sites. I wanted to make sure no surprise jealously feelings would arise once she began talking with men (no such feelings did come up) and also slowly introduce her more into the idea and culture of it all. My wife is suuuuper innocent so upon recommendation of many of you within this sub, we have intentionally been taking baby steps. We have not yet made any in person plans, but I can see this all happening fast. We live at the end of a very quiet cul-de-sac so my concern is once we start playing, new cars in the neighborhood might draw attention. How does everyone engage? Public settings seems risky in the event we are seen. Hotels seem too “right to the chase” and doesn’t allow enough time to build trust and rapport. What does everyone else do?