Hello! So I have a situation with my aunt about not being on the invite list for any wedding events. My mom keeps pushing for her to be there but I'll share my reasons why I've avoided. Kinda wanted to feel reassurance for doing the right thing.

We use to be very close as I was growing up but when I got older (I'm 25 for reference), I've noticed how problematic she is. She is very ungrateful towards her mom (my grandma has sacrificed a lot for her) and is very bitter about relationships cause none of hers have worked. She's made some comments about my relationship and it's struck a core with me because I've never done anything to her to disrespect her like that. In addition, every family event around her she's cause some drama and made it into her. I am very huge on protecting my peace so I have been avoidant if I know she's present. She got in a huge fight with the family because she was toxic with our grandma and she's slowly made her way back into the family. I personally find her "apologizes" to be forced out of her because she never thinks she's in the wrong. I choose not to buy into that therefore not on speaking terms. Since the wedding is in 2 months, my mom keeps bringing her up and saying I should forgive her. My mom is pushing more for the relationship than both of us are cause my aunt is very well aware that our relationship is tainted. My fiancé and I deserve a peaceful day and I fear that all hell will break loose if she doesn't come.