My gf and i have been together for going on 2 years and i personally feel like she is a bad gf and everyone agrees. So to start off her dad passed away almost a year ago and she had quit her job before that and hasn't gotten another one since i was fine with it at first since everyone grieves in their own way. But it since has been less about her grieving and more about her being lazy and entitled i say entitled because i use the majority of my income for bills and food whatever is left i have left to do what i want. Except i feel like i can't do anything because she is constantly asking me to buy this or buy that and when i tell her no she gets all sad and upset for days. i work overnights where im forced to buy food because she refuses to cook and then gets mad at me for spending money. She doesn't clean or do laundry she just lays around or runs errands and drives people around. None of this would be an issue if she did anything for me she doesn't do anything i ask of her which could be something as simple as getting me a drink. I have to do everything and i think what makes me most annoyed is no sex i cant touch her she doesn't touch me i want contact but even something like a kiss on the cheek makes her upset. I tell everyone i work with and my family about all of this and they agree that she is a bad gf and when i bring any of these issues up she finds a way to turn it around on me. Thanks for letting me get this out

Edit. Me and her family believe she has depression but she refuses to seek help or admit she has any plus she doesn't want to admit how she has been treating me or anyone else. Also thanks for all the comments