Recently my friend of 7 years and I have been having altercations the first one was my fault because I kept bringing up the fact that she went off on me for jokingly calling her gay when she couldn’t answer my call . I understand she’s busy I wasnt mad she couldn’t answer it was just a mindless text I sent . She said she just is feeling judged cause every time she mentions a guy she’s with i bash her male interest. She said I wouldn’t understand cause I’ve never dated and said she’s just more sentimental. I told her I’m sorry I’ll be more understanding and since then I’ve been wary with my words and been more supporting of her dating life. Now she’s angry at me because she called me and was mentioning that another close friend of ours is canceling on going to the clubs for her bday and I mentioned to her following that I would also have to cancel due to me not having enough money like at all but we could throw her a small simple birthday at her place and we’d buy cake. She said why didn’t you say anything we planned this for a while but I didn’t have enough time to say it just happened I don’t have job and I don’t have a steady income coming in. She got sad and hung up. So then I called my other friend that had cancelled and let her her know she was sad because of the situation and that we should make up to her. Next thing you know the 7 year friend texted me and said they weren’t mad about the cancellation but of how it was handled and that she was irritated at the fact that I let the other friend know of how she was feeling. I apologized and was left on read. Idk am I shitty friend for this I feel like I am and it keeps fucking with my head I’ve been thinking of taking a break