i share a dorm room with my roommate and i left for a night and i knew my roommate was going clubbing with her friend from home so i had a hunch something might happen and made my bed a very specific way with my clothes and stuffed animal in the middle of my bed. he stays over without her asking me (she usually does), and the next morning i came back and my clothes were moved to the very edge of my bed

i asked her about this twice, saying how it was strange that my things were moved on my bed. the first time she said that one of my stuffed animals fell so her friend put it back on, and the second time she still insisted he didn’t sleep in my bed and that maybe he rearranged stuff that he knocked over or was making videos. i’m not sure what to do if she doesn’t even admit it.

i’m sooo particular about my bed and i hate it when people even sit on my bed, so the fact that she might’ve let her friend is really upsetting to me. she knows how particular i am abt my bed and i’ve told her a couple times, but im very sure my clothes were moved. her friend has also previously left his wallet and keys on my bed before, which shows that he’s too comfortable in my space. he’s also really gross as a person and id be so uncomfy w him in my bed. me and my roommate are also friends and she’s a sweet person, but the type of person that wouldn’t say no if someone wanted to violate my space. i really don’t know what to do lol!!!