You know, I never looked at this sort of thing before I went and got myself married, but I wish I had. I can honestly say, please, look into who you are marrying. I know my mom was less than pleased when I got married. She never even went to the marriage. My wife was incredibly below my station in life. I am not here to warn anyone about marriage in general, but I can openly admit that I did marry someone way below me. I have read a lot regarding this and have disregarded it before I got married, but I can openly say that what I read was more than eye opening and I wish I had listened to those that came before me. I thought I would be different. I thought I would be the exception. I was wrong in so many ways. I know this is probably wrong, but this sort of thing happens.