34f midwest black working mom

Its simple, well it is to me. I want two boyfriends and a girlfriend. While this may sound excessive, I believe it will work out with the right people. People change, grow, evolve. We have to continuously find ourselves. This has been on my mind for a few weeks and its growing on me.

Everyone is different so the three relationships would be different. A quad of people have different needs. I have no desire for those 3 people to date each other, but to have some kind of familiarity. Its more about consent and open communication. Everyone knows whats going on and if things change, there will be transparency as well. I absolutely love sex, that's the cherry on top. However, when i say bf/gf the relationships are the primary focus. Going places, being there for each other, celebrating each other for no reason, hanging out, laying up, would be wanted too.

Within building these relationships, I know that I will still be learning things about myself. Sometimes it takes situations to have insight on a variety of topics. This is the long road where we are taking our time. Really getting to know each other. I have a busy schedule which makes it seem even longer to establish a solid foundation with each person. I'm here for it. Its better than moving super fast, only to crash and burn.

A girlfriend. So, I'm bi-curious. I don't want to give head to a woman, but want to do every single thing else. I can't think of anything else I would want to X out but oral. I realize this could be a deal-breaker to many, so I made sure to mention it.

2 boyfriends. I just, do. All I know is monogamy and long-term relationships for most of my adult life. I want to at least try this. If a man can be open to this, of course I'm eager to know more characteristics he may have.

The sex. Imagine how.. nvm 🤭

Me. Again, I have a busy schedule but will definitely make time for IRL. I'm black, Located in the midwest. I work, I'm a dedicated mother, both an extrovert and introvert. and into bdsm. If you aren't, that is fine. Some people want their partners to mirror as much about themselves as possible but I'm the opposite. I'm weird and awkward. I will celebrate our differences and probably ask you a million questions about them. I want us to be in sync, yet cherishing our individuality. Although my days are long, I'm a huge texter. It helps me balance my schedule. I don't mind phone calls but with texts, the reminder is like right there!

Anyways, I could tell you a ton about me. Hit me up with a ton about you and some pics. Ttys