1) Having another girlfriend or any other type of woman you're actively involved with. I want to come first to you.

2) Having kids. Again, I want to come first to you. I need to come first and any kid I may have by you would also need that. Also we likely can't do those romantic vacations to Italy if we're always watching grandchildren as well. I can't make love to you every 5 minutes 7500 times a day if one of your kids is sleeping somewhere in the same house. I can't really freely take your card on a Cartier shopping spree if I know you're already under strain paying college fees. Not coming first in any situation both big and small in my husband's life is no way to live.

3) I will never date someone in the military services/ police force ever again. ESPECIALLY BORDER PATROL MILITARY OFFICIALS. Especially if you're always talking about how much you "enjoy what you do at work"

4) Being a partial provider. I could be a partial girlfriend to a man like that, but even then I don't like half-measures. You either have me or don't.

5) Don't actively, currently be a smoker or heavy drinker

6) Don't be a bigot, including religious bigotry