We posted this to our fetlife but, since we have a bigger presence here currently we’re going to repost this here! TLDR at the bottom.

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Hey! We’re TheRealLifeHotwife couple, and we’d like to take a second and discuss this little pocket of kink that we are forming on fetlife, and other websites as well. We weren’t unaware of the controversy that involves the QOS/BBC scene going into this, we know each other and our own morals and thought processes, but we also knew at some point we’d have to make a clear stance on our views surrounding this kink, lest the wrong crowd gets the wrong idea and we have a bunch of racists in our following - SO, with that being said let’s get into it. (sorry to everyone on here with one hand, this is a serious convo, no sexy stuff in this post!)

The Most Important Part: We Are ALL Human!

Me and my fiance hold this moral very close to our hearts outside of kink as well, but especially involving this kink. We are ALL human, and it shouldn’t have to be said, but the color of your skin has no merit on your worth. This is a Fantasy first and foremost, it holds no weight outside of this silly sexual realm that we like to play in. Of course, it’s confusing, because the very concept of race play kind of implies that the participants maybe don’t agree with that, but we are not that type of people. As fun as it is to have a preference towards black men sexually, in real life, this fetish holds absolutely 0 weight for us, and we could care less about your skin color, this is purely a fun hat to wear, and one we want to fully embrace without shame or guilt, as the whole purpose of this website would suggest. So one more time for the people in the back, WE ARE ALL HUMAN and deserve the SAME respect regardless of appearance and culture .

The Slippery Slope of Preference and Desire

Now, onto the next subject, which is the subject of preference. Having said everything we have in the previous paragraph, I feel this distinction needs to be made; just because we see everyone as deserving of respect and value regardless of your skin color or culture, that does not imply preferences doest exist. The truth of the matter is, I have a preference for black men sexually! I like the contrast of color, I like breaking racist social norms that look down on inter-racial relationships, and honestly the race play regarding dissing on white men just turns me on! Probably because my husband is white, and he loves it haha. But again, it’s just a hat we wear! And any white man that has made it this far - the first paragraph of course holds true for you as well, but having said that, this page will focus more on the humiliation of white men than anything else, at least for now.

But having a preference and indulging in that preference has been so freeing for me, and I’m excited to keep embracing it more and forming a supportive, naughty community that shares my same fetish ideals in a healthy way for everyone to enjoy❤️

And if you disagree with ANYTHING in this post, feel free to block/unfollow our account, we don’t want your support!

Thank you for reading this far if you have, and feel free to open a dialog in the comments for any clarification or communication revolving this, just please keep it civil.

TLDR; We are ALL human and all have intrinsic value regardless of your culture or skin color. Any race play on THIS account is purely for fun, and holds no weight on how we view people outside in the real world. We do NOT condone any real hate directed towards any group of people. This page is purely for fun in the fetish lifestyle, and is not meant to portray any of our actual views other than the sexual fantasies we are exploring.