I'm sometimes faced with writing too much in a single post vs. women wanting to know more before reaching out. Could a FAQ be the in between space?

What are your expectations?

We chat, we meet, we decide we'd like to cuddle. It could be watching a movie in the theater if you'd feel most comfortable cuddling in a semi-public setting, or laying on a bed getting comfy. There are different trade offs of comfort, familiarity, potential variety of positions, etc.

Is "cuddling" a euphemism for sex?

Nope! It's being held, allowing yourself to melt into someone, and be present in affectionate expression without a set agenda or destination. I presume you have plenty of opportunities for hookups and would like to have a cuddle-focused experience.

Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?

I'm 6' tall and I'm therefore usually the big spoon. When my ex became the little spoon she called it more like a "backpack mode."

Tell me more about cuddle buddies in your past

1. One woman was shy about cuddling at first, realized how much she enjoyed cuddling, and decided good cuddling should be an essential quality of all future relationships.
2. Another woman felt pretty burned out with medical school and her residency but felt recharged by cuddling and may have slept best while wrapped up in someone's arms.
3. Another woman felt she was always detaching during sex, nervous and under-engaged. She wanted to be more present in intimacy and found focused cuddling, with respected boundaries, a healing experience.
4. Another woman knew she enjoyed cuddling but was frustrated she couldn't find good cuddling in her dating life. She discovered good cuddling is possible, and a key quality she's looking for in a relationship.
5. Another woman was recently left a long-term relationship, wasn't ready to jump into another relationship right away, and knew she was craving quality cuddling.