My main limits:

No blood

No pain (light spanking on the butt is okay but not much else), and nothing that will leave marks or injury

No involving other people without consent

No pictures or video.

No meeting if we are not both at 100% health (scat play can be risky)

No making me eat shit. Happy for it to go in my mouth and on my body but eating is generally a bit much.

About me:

I'm overweight, dark brown short hair, fairly short beard.

31, Male. Bisexual, prefer male for scat but would be interested in meeting a woman who wants to dominate a guy.

I'm in an open marriage, my wife knows all about my kinks and that I meet up with other guys. She is 100% not interested in joining anything.

I have some experience with scat play already. Have done it with about four other people, but never gotten crazy far. I've had small amounts in my mouth for several minutes at a time, I've given a scat blowjob. Never had my mouth filled with it, or been in a position where I couldn't spit it out.

My preferences:

I really enjoy being helpless - blindfolds and hands cuffed are quite common for my meets nowadays.

I love using my mouth to pleasure my partner - rimming is a big favourite, I also love giving blowjobs, sucking toes/feet and generally being made to lick, kiss or suck anywhere on the body.

I love things being a bit nasty. The thrill of my tongue hitting an arsehole and not knowing whether it's gonna be squeaky clean, skanky swamp-ass, or maybe the remnants of a recent toilet run is a big turn on, for instance. Similarly being made to lick sweaty feet, balls and pits or similar is hot to me.

I love the thrill of uncertainty and not knowing what is going to happen when meeting a guy. For example I had a meet once (via fabguys) where a guy made no mention of being interested in watersports. But he had clearly read my profile and saw I was into it and loved surprises, and so mid blowjob, with no warning, he just started pissing. My mouth was half full before I even realised what he was doing. I LOVED it.

I like meets having a threat of scat, ideally happening to a low level but with me knowing you have permission to take it further.

What you're allowed to do

Generally if it's in line with my limits, you can do it. Check with me if you're really unsure, but otherwise there is no need

You can decide what you want us to do, without checking with me first - provided it's otherwise in line with my limits and preferences. You can agree to do one thing with me, and do something different when we meet.

Similar to the above, you can give me deceptive choices or outright lie about what you'll do. For example you could give me the option of drinking your piss, with the promise that if I do you won't shit in my mouth after you cum. If I agree, and drink your piss, you could then shit in my mouth before you cum instead. Technically following the letter of the agreement, to my detriment.

In terms of specifics, you can do any of the following:

• Make me lick or suck any part of your body

• Make me drink your cum or piss (fresh only, no "stored" substances)

• Get your shit in my mouth, directly from your arsehole or indirectly by e.g. hand or sucking it off dick

• Put any shit I spit out back into my mouth

• Blindfold or restrain me (highly recommended - I cum quite easily if I can touch myself and once I do, I lose a lot of drive)

• With lube you can toy my arsehole. I can't take dick I'm afraid. If you really want to try, use a condom.

• Spit or dribble on me, including making me drink it.

Specific Scenarios

Here's some of the kinds of specific fantasies/scenarios I have in mind. You could do one of these exactly, "corrupt" one of these with the above rules in mind, or just use them as inspiration to make use of me in another way. I would be happy to discuss these in further detail if any pique your interest.

• Before we meet, you give me a long list of specific instructions of what I will have to do in the meet (e.g. turn up at exactly 7pm, come inside with eyes closed and turn around, wait until I blindfold you etc.). The final instruction(s) will be to put me into a vulnerable and exposed position, ready to receive punishment (i.e. scat). Once in that position, you give me however much punishment you think I deserve, based on how many instructions I made mistakes on.

• You blindfold and handcuff me in the bathroom of your hotel room, and tell me that I am not going to be released until you've both taken a shit, and cum, and that at least one of these must be into my mouth. Then you make use of my mouth. You could intentionally try to cum in it, and then shit in the toilet before releasing me. You could cum in my mouth, then shit in it anyway. You could make me suck you to the brink of cumming, then intentionally cum over my chest, with me knowing it means you'll have to shit in my mouth. Or you could shit in my mouth before you cum, with me knowing there's no release until you do eventually cum.

• So far every time I've done scat I've only taken a bit of a guy's log in my mouth. So at least one time, I want to be made to take the entire thing (not in one go though!). The idea being I would have to act as an intermediary between your asshole and the toilet - all of your shit goes into my mouth, and from my mouth into the toilet. Before we start you tie me up, and make me agree that I can only be released once you've completely finished taking a shit, and I've spat it all out into the toilet. If you want to make this even kinkier and/or more sadistic you can add extra rules or steps. For example you can also make me agree that I have to lick clean all of your shit that ends up on your body or possessions, intentionally or accidentally. You can make me give you a blowjob or rimjob between spitting your shit out and taking the next load (if you're really kinky, you can do it while I have the shit in my mouth). You can put the toilet seat down after each time I spit out shit, or put a ball gag in my mouth to prevent spitting shit out for a brief period. And so on.

• We meet and you tell me that after a bit, I'm going to be tied to the bed for you to shit in my mouth, and that the more I please you the less filthy you're going to make my mouth. After this, you make use of me however you prefer, until you decide you've had enough. Then, you follow through with your promise. If I pleased you a lot, maybe you just drop a turtle head in my mouth, and release me soon after. If I did okay but not great, perhaps it's a small log and you leave to finish shitting in the bathroom. If you feel I did poorly, it could be a mouthful that gets ball gagged in while you have a shower.

One special case

A unique thing I want you to know you can use. This is a special case you can use to demand I swallow your cum, even if you shat in my mouth shortly before (or after) or similar. You have to do the following:

• Cum in my mouth (obviously), and I have no yet swallowed it.

• Put a closed mouth gag on me (or plug an open mouth gag)

• Cuff my hands in a way that stops me removing the mouth gag, e.g. behind back or to a towel rail above my head

You don't have to do all of these in any particular order. But once all three are done, you can demand I swallow your cum. If I cannot spit out from my mouth, then you win and I will have no choice but to swallow.

If I think you are working towards making me swallow your shit in this way, I may try and avoid letting you do so. You'll have to make sure I can't get away as you set me up for this.

What I can bring

I can bring along up to two pairs of soft handcuffs, a blindfold, an open mouth gag with a plug, and condoms. If you would like to use other toys you will need to bring them yourself.

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